The Big Payback

Every now and then M’habiller takes a small departure from providing insightful style commentaries in order to explore aspects of the human condition. With that said, this week post is all about finding the strength to get up when life serves you a sucker punch that rocks you to your core. The initial pain is intense and can temporarily maim but cannot kill unless you believe and cling to the stinking thinking born from unexpected setbacks.  Holding on to disappointment and rejection will inevitably lead to feelings of inadequacy, irrational fears, and intense rage which are tools design to do one thing, hold you back from all you were meant to be. So, what’s the key to overcoming negative experiences? Pay it back by moving forward.  Own an attitude and a style that reflects and declares you will never accept “YOU WILL NEVER” or any of its derivatives such as: you’ll never be, you’ll never do, or you’ll never have.  Most of all stay laser focused on finding, operating, and successfully executing YOUR purpose. That way, even when faced with the deepest disappointment or harshest rejection, you’re still able to keep it moving, keep it cute, keep calm, and most importantly carry on.

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